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Your Head Is Busy: What Working With Me Looks Like
A relaxed introduction to psychology-informed 1:1 online coaching for overthinking, confidence, boundaries and self-trust.
Naomi Ashmore
5 days ago2 min read


Build It Without Losing Yourself: Private 1:1 Founder Coaching
Ten weeks of psychology-informed private coaching for women building businesses who want confidence, clearer decisions and sustainable progress without losing themselves.
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 182 min read


What Actually Happens in Your First Online Coaching Session?
Not sure what to say in your first coaching session? Here's what psychology-informed online coaching with The Everyday Mind is really like, how it works and how to get started — without pressure or a package commitment.
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 152 min read
What If You're More Ready Than You Think? A Kinder Way Through Self-Doubt
Why capable women can still overthink and second-guess themselves — and three practical, psychology-informed questions to help you take your next step. Includes Naomi's Womeniverse workshop, free guide and coaching links.
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 132 min read


Kind Words from Amaka: Finding Space for Clarity
A client reflection on juggling motherhood, career and everyday life — and making space to recognise what you're already doing right.
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 101 min read
The Everyday Mind at Work | Corporate Wellbeing for US Teams
Psychology-informed virtual wellbeing workshops, short learning videos and practical coaching tools for US teams.
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 102 min read


Episode 6: Why Do I Feel Like I Need to Fix Everything?
I recorded Episode 6 with a stinking cold, so apparently the podcast needed an emergency backup producer. Luckily, four paws and a pair of headphones were available. Why Do I Feel Like I Need to Fix Everything? This episode is for anyone whose brain seems permanently on duty — scanning for the next problem to solve, person to help, loose end to tie up or thing to make better. We look at that familiar pressure to keep everything together, why stepping back can feel surprisingl
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 51 min read


Start Here — Overthinking, Confidence & Coaching
Start Here If you’ve landed here with 37 tabs open in your head, you do not need to work out which part of the website you’re supposed to read first. Choose the option that feels most useful today. 1. My brain is overthinking everything Start free. The 5 Questions guide is a short reset for when your mind is circling and you need one useful next step. Want a smaller first step? If you want to try a simple tool before committing to a longer programme, Back Yourself is my £7 mi
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 51 min read


Work With The Everyday Mind — Workshops, Podcasts & Brand Collaborations
Work & Collaborate With The Everyday Mind The Everyday Mind creates psychology-informed, practical content and coaching for real life — especially around overthinking, confidence, self-trust, visibility, decision-making and the knowing–doing gap. If you are planning a podcast, workshop, staff wellbeing session, founder event, brand collaboration or useful piece of content, I’d love to hear what you have in mind. Ways we can work together Corporate wellbeing and staff-developm
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 51 min read


Build the business. Make the money. Keep yourself.
There is a strange moment in business where you can know exactly what would probably help — post the thing, send the pitch, follow up, state the price, make the offer — and still find yourself doing almost anything else. That gap is not always a strategy problem. Sometimes it is the psychology of being the person who has to carry the strategy out. The founder wobble nobody puts in the business plan What if people judge me? What if nobody buys? Who am I to charge that? Everyon
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 53 min read


Why capable women overthink — and why more thinking is not always the answer
You can be capable, intelligent and perfectly able to make decisions — and still find yourself staring at the same choice for three days, asking five people what they think, changing your mind twice and wondering why something so ordinary feels so loud. That does not automatically mean you lack confidence. Often, it means your mind is trying very hard to protect you from uncertainty, judgement or regret. The moment useful thinking becomes a loop Thinking is useful when it giv
Naomi Ashmore
Oct 53 min read


Why Do I Feel Like I Need to Fix Everything?
Someone tells you they’ve had a difficult day and, before they have even finished the sentence, your brain is already producing suggestions. Have you spoken to them? Could you send an email? Maybe you need a break. Have you tried writing everything down? What if you did this instead? You mean well. You care. You want the person in front of you to feel better. But sometimes they look at you and say, “I don’t actually need you to do anything. I just needed to talk.” And if you
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 296 min read


Online Confidence Coaching for Overthinking and Self-Doubt
You can know exactly what you want to do and still find yourself overthinking it, second-guessing yourself or waiting to feel more confident first. That does not mean you lack motivation. Often, your brain is trying to reduce uncertainty and protect you from the possibility of getting something wrong, being judged or feeling uncomfortable. Online confidence coaching gives you a practical space to untangle those patterns, understand what is keeping you stuck and choose a next
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 292 min read


Why Do I Second-Guess Every Decision? How to Build Self-Trust Without Waiting for Certainty
If you keep reopening decisions, overthinking what people might think and waiting to feel completely sure, this psychology-informed guide can help you move forward.
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 283 min read


Contributor Spotlight: Mummy Conquering Anxiety x The Everyday Mind
Meet Sam from Mummy Conquering Anxiety, a contributor collaborating with The Everyday Mind on honest, practical content around confidence, anxiety, identity and finding your voice.
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 271 min read


What Actually Happens in an Online Life Coaching Session?
Curious about online life coaching but not sure what really happens in a session? Here’s a practical, psychology-informed guide to what to expect, who coaching can help and how to decide if it feels right for you.
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 272 min read


The Everyday Mind Podcast — Start Here
Psychology for people with 37 tabs open. Meet The Everyday Mind podcast and explore relatable, psychology-informed conversations, companion reads and practical next steps.
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 272 min read


When Did You Stop Choosing You?
When Did You Stop Choosing You? There’s a sentence I keep coming back to lately: “I just want to feel like myself again.” And I think a lot of us know exactly what that means. You haven’t necessarily lost yourself in one dramatic moment. There probably wasn’t a Tuesday afternoon when you suddenly thought, Well, that’s it then. I appear to have misplaced my entire personality. It usually happens much more quietly. Work. Family. Relationships. Responsibilities. Being the reliab
Naomi Ashmore
Sep 136 min read


You Know What You Want… So Why Are You Still Talking Yourself Out of It?
Why self-doubt gets louder when something matters — and why you don’t have to wait for confidence before you act There are some things in life we genuinely don’t know the answer to. And then there are the things we sort of know the answer to… …but have managed to hold approximately 47 internal meetings about anyway. You want to apply for the job. Send the email. Start the business. Ask the question. Set the boundary. Go somewhere new. Put yourself forward. Try the class. Make
Naomi Ashmore
Aug 318 min read


Finding Yourself Again: When Did You Stop Making Space for You?
There can be a strange moment in adulthood when you realise you're not entirely sure what you enjoy anymore. Not what the family enjoys. Not what needs doing around the house. Not what fits around work. Not what you should be doing. What you enjoy. For years, life can become a collection of roles and responsibilities. Work, relationships, family, animals, appointments, housework, finances and that mysteriously self-replenishing pile of washing. We become very good at asking,
Naomi Ashmore
Aug 234 min read
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